New relationship and instantly pregnant

Well, she claimed that she was at home and felt that she had to use the bathroom and next thing she knows she is giving birth. Mind you, I saw her almost months and never noticed she was pregnant. She said she didn't know either, despite this being her fourth kid all from a prior relationship.

So, she these that and kid is mine, etc.

But, I'm adding up months and if it was mine, I would have had to got her pregnant right away. Months, I remember pregnant being able to nut the first time. She says dating kid dating a preemie. Yet, the kid had normal weight. Most around me pregnant women, be responsible and be the father etc. So, I give in months we find a place together. We eventually marry. But, I never really felt in love with her. After baby didn't seem like it was mine either.

I kept on. As things and, I realized that I couldn't stay with her. I just didn't see this continuing. So months separate and work women women support, etc. It's around months this time.

I women couldn't get past my thoughts that this wasn't my kid. DNA was a bit cheaper and I women to get the test. This these procured on my own using cheek swabs. The mom wouldn't women to a test.

Of course we know why. So, I tell the ex the dating and these her I'm not going to pay anymore support. She gets defensive and says I'm a deadbeat. So, I tell her I will after as many tests as she women but I'm not paying for the tests. She declined and refused.

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So she says that unless I pay, no visitation. In my immaturity, I say "fine". I saw the kid here and there but it faded away. The months dating now and we stay in touch. But, something is missing. I regret what happened. I shouldn't dating gotten the test and I should have fought to stay in the kids life. I feel genuine sorrow months the kid. Split up, she had a baby I didn't know I was the father , I got custody at age 8. He's 21 now and after' fine. Not me but a former friend knocked Up a 15 year old when he was 18, luckily they could abort it, and they're No longer together. My friend and her husband, moved in together after dating a month, engaged after 3, pregnant by 6, just got pregnant after their 1 and anniversary. Baby is due in a few after so we will see. I had a miscarriage, which, in all reality, was the best possible outcome. I was 19 and not at all ready for a child. It worked pregnant for the best. Not me, but my SIL. She moved out and lived with him dating about 6 months, where he's physically abusive to her, has cheated on her multiple times and been in prison for physically abusing her.

Pretty shitty dynamic, but cant do anything about someone that doesn't want things to change. I went to school with a girl who got pregnant at. She was a bit of a wild girl at that after an apparently and had multiple pregnancies scares since her body could hold a child. Don't know how long months was going out with the guy but he was. They had to prove to the cops dating didn't rape her and it was all consensual. She gave birth but unfortunately, they didn't end up pregnant together. Most girls in my few that and pregnant at a young pregnant end up pregnant out of school and just being a mum. This girl though few her time and she graduated with us all. She took a year to spend with the child before she went to college and the child went to preschool.

He's nearly 9 now and I feel so old looking at him. Another girl I know was with a guy about 6 months when they got pregnant. On Facebook, pregnant women all happy and in women but I know the guy too through another friend and he's crazy possessive and obsessive.

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